Being born is not a choice, but being alive is. For you, it can be an existential fact that you deal with. But when its about someone else, it's that moment of submission against all realms of individualism.
For now, you consider another one as yourself whom it means to exist that much more valid and accepting.
For the 1st timers, physical appearances define relationships and all the emotions flow through a crescendo. You experience a revelation of another human, not family but a being, superior enough to be with. Some stick to god, some pray at the feet, some in the eyes and some, just in their reflection of someone else's eyes.
But for those who go through this crest and trough of life, visions of struggle loom in the future, your make is proof of evidences, societal norms and myriad factors that lead you to decide is it worth it ... the 1st time and then again...?
For many this existence slowly eats them inside and the struggle starts in the thought. Lucky or unlucky, they know that another one of them can't fix both and leave them behind in memories.
For some, letting their guard down enough to be dominated is a struggle for their hunger for love takes over which leads to imbalances in nature where the most vicious animal takes over the food chain of 2.
And then there are those who see meaning to the word 'Love' that they just saw in others in different forms, books, movies or in their world of perfectness and now in reality in another being, not so perfect. For them, existence now has another reason, irrespective of time, dates, others, reasons and all they hope for is that the other one exists for them in a similar way.
To be able to relate, chemically align, bodies melt into an amalgamation of one nearly perfect relationship is the desire.
But then, a single soul of this new being exists in 2 people and develops differently and has to exist for it has no choice, just like being born for us humans.
So does this mean being in 'Love' and being born are the same. Not a choice but being just alive?
For now, you consider another one as yourself whom it means to exist that much more valid and accepting.
For the 1st timers, physical appearances define relationships and all the emotions flow through a crescendo. You experience a revelation of another human, not family but a being, superior enough to be with. Some stick to god, some pray at the feet, some in the eyes and some, just in their reflection of someone else's eyes.
But for those who go through this crest and trough of life, visions of struggle loom in the future, your make is proof of evidences, societal norms and myriad factors that lead you to decide is it worth it ... the 1st time and then again...?
For many this existence slowly eats them inside and the struggle starts in the thought. Lucky or unlucky, they know that another one of them can't fix both and leave them behind in memories.
For some, letting their guard down enough to be dominated is a struggle for their hunger for love takes over which leads to imbalances in nature where the most vicious animal takes over the food chain of 2.
And then there are those who see meaning to the word 'Love' that they just saw in others in different forms, books, movies or in their world of perfectness and now in reality in another being, not so perfect. For them, existence now has another reason, irrespective of time, dates, others, reasons and all they hope for is that the other one exists for them in a similar way.
To be able to relate, chemically align, bodies melt into an amalgamation of one nearly perfect relationship is the desire.
But then, a single soul of this new being exists in 2 people and develops differently and has to exist for it has no choice, just like being born for us humans.
So does this mean being in 'Love' and being born are the same. Not a choice but being just alive?
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